You russian dating woman Saint Petersburg have decided to date a Russian girl but uncertain about disparity of years? 5-15 years disparity is just normal. You sure can meet a lady who will be 8, 10, 12, 12 and even 18 years younger than you. Many western men are astonished at receiving correspondence from attractive professional girls (doctors, analysts, accountants) 10-15 years younger than themselves. In the USA this disparity between years is beyond reality. In your look for a Russian bride, it is not. One of the reasons is that ladies in Russia grow wise at a younger age, and having a relationship with a western man of their own age is like having affair with a teenager. Complications in life make people serious, the same way that age does. The disparity of years also adds them feeling of security.

From the other side, you must not have unrealistic expectations. If you are in your 50’s or 60’s, you must not expect to get a 20-year old girl. A lot of pretty, attractive in their late 30s or 40s would be happy to make your acquaintance; half of dating agencies’ women clients belong to this age group, and you won’t have problems with getting their attention. This is realistic. In special cases if you are really handsome, or very clever/wealty/well-known, you can make it with an disparity of years of even 20 years or more. But it would be an exclusion, not the rule.

In case if your goal is a lifetime commitment, don’t forget to take age issues into consideration. Matrimonial agencies love to tell stories about Russian ladies preferring much older men, and that it won’t affect your family; but that’s only what these fables are – stories. You have to be big enough to understand realness and resist the enticement to believe myths. Apply common sense, and don’t let yourself be deceived by unfair employees from the dating agency. Actually the most ladies will not have a problem with age gap up to 10 years, and many find reasonable age difference up to 15 years, only a few won’t demur with disparity between years up to 20 years. But bigger gap will be quite dangerous, and you surely will meet troubles in your search.

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One more thing is that the older a lady the less disproportion in age is acceptable for her. For example a 20-year old girl would feel fine with a man of 35, but a lady of 34 may consider that a man in his 50’s is old for her. That is explained by the fact that a lot of western men search for Russian women and older women got the chance to choose and to be selective. Young ladies are more romantic and less ultimate. They feel themselves more assured and certain by the older and dependable husband.

It’s really important for Eastern European girl to find a husband and have children. Girls are brought up with the thought of a family, their purpose is to make a family. Eastern European girl is realized only if she has a family and her own household. This is the main motive why so many attractive ladies are looking for a life-partner in the west. The point is that the quantity of females in Russia is bigger than the number of males by 12%, so they have no choice but to look for husbands in the West.

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According to Easstern Europe traditons, a girl have to have family with children; being lonely is a shame. Any lady who is unmarried by 23 is considered as “old maid”. Girls 22-28 want to begin family-life really soon. The most society’s press on the girl to get a family is by the age of 28; afterwards her family and friends start thinking she would never get married and give in on her; she also starts getting used to the thougth she will not have her own family. Once girls are accustomed with the idea of never getting married, their demands to a prospective husband lower. Only getting married to evade the disgrace of being lonely is not enough for them any more.

So there are a few probable motives why it looks like Eastern European women want much older guys: • The marriage agency said to her that it would be much easier for her to get an older man, and that she would be able to decide afterwards if she wants to marry him (servises need money!!!). • She didn’t put down age of her future partner in her ad cause she did not think it to be significant, or just left it behind. • The ads are written by women seeking wealthy husbands and targeted to the most efficient clients. In fact you should remember that there are REALLY FEW women who probably DO prefera MUCH older husband. But it’s still possible for a man to meet a younger girl, and even MUCH younger. Just be realistic and remember that 10-15 years difference is the limit, otherwise you will get troubles at a later stage.

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